Amanda said: February 20, 2008 12:46 pm PST
I placed a baby boy for adoption 3 years ago. I was very selective through the process of choosing a couple to raise my son and went through several profiles my agency provided. Once I chose my couple, we met, talked about upbringing, beliefs, and anything else that came to mind. We kept in touch throughout the pregnancy and eventually they felt like family. I knew that I had made a good choice and felt at peace with my decision. To this day I have never second guessed my decision to do so. I couldn't stand the thought of trying to raise my son knowing that he would not know his father very well and/or be tossed to and from house holds that didn't have the same values and morals. Since marriage wasn't a possibility for us, I knew that I had to do right by my son and make sure that he was brought up in a home with a mother and father who had the same beliefs and agreed on how to raise a child. I have an open adoption, therefore I receive emails, pictures, video clips and about once a year I see my son. I have a very strong relationship with my son and his parents. I couldn't have asked for more. I recommend to those who aren't sure what to do, to look into this option, it is a true blessing for all involved.